Yeah, it's me, again. I always feel like I post here but rarely comment, but I'm really confused at the moment...
Anyway...so yeah, I posted earlier about the whole "soreness" thing....now I'm wondering something else. Sorta connected, but not really sure how....does that make sense? Anyway -
I feel so odd being around my friends, after what happened. I told three of my really good friends what happened...two reassured me that nothing has changed between the two of us (whole "pre-marital sex" argument is a big thing with my friends and I, i don't really know why) and one even gave me really good advice. The other one is making me beat my head against a freaking wall. Up until talking to her, I was not regreting the entire thing, just not being prepared for talking to everyone afterwards. Now...I don't know!!! ARGH! Is this normal? Any idea how to handle her and her sometimes-really-sorta-over-the-top opinions?
And being around him too. I sent him home from hanging out with me early yesterday because I was feeling....idk, uncomfortable isn't the word, but not like I normally do. I love him to death, I really really do. But I'm so confused right now....is that normal too?
Am I stressing out over absolutly nothing? Is this normal? Or do I just need to beat my head against the way some more times and then take a deep breath and say "Get over it already!"?
Thanks again...I know I'm, sorta, well, exploding but...well....yeah. Sorry...
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Okay, so...yeah. I've been around here before, and I searched through a lot of posts and most of the memories, but I'm still kinda wondering..
Is it normal to be really, really, REALLY sore after having sex for the first time? Like, when I say REALLY sore, I mean REALLY sore. I feel like I'm sitting odd, walking odd....everything I do just makes me ache.
Also, I feel a bit nauseous, but that could just be from nerves....Nerves because I've pretty much told my mother everything about my relationship with my guy and I still haven't figured out how to tell her this without her flipping out on me and never letting me leave this house alone with him ever again....
Anyway...yeah. Any advice would be really helpful. Please and thank you.
P.S. - For the record...it was right. I love him and I know he loves me and it just felt right. Yeah...sorry, had to clarify that. Thanks in advance (again) for the advice.
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today i went farther then i've ever been with a guy
we almost had sex, but i freaked and said no
dont get me wrong, i really enjoyed what we did and im sure i would of enjoyed it if we had sex
but im not sure why i freaked
well im 15 and still a virgin so i decided to join this community.
im a virgin by choice, yet seem to be wanting to have sex very badly.
im very curious about everything that deals with sexuality or anything sexual in that manner.
Today is national AIDS awareness day. Just wanted to shout that out.
Sorry to disapoint every one but I also am not a virgin. I unfortunetly lost it when I was raped at the age of 12. I hope that I am allowed to stay because many people claim that since it was kind of taken from me that I still is a way am a virgin.
Hey yall, I just joined, Im not a virgin, but enjoy sex a lot and have it a lot, I also spent many years as a Biology major, if no one has any objections, Id like to stick around to help answer questions? Thanks!